Don't be a Sinner
During the prayers for Holy Confession, we pray the 50th Psalm which was written as part of King David the Prophet’s confession. In that Psalm we pray to God, “Against You, You only I have sinned, and done that which is evil in Your sight.” I bring this up, because many times, we find it hard to forgive the sins of other in our lives. Please allow me to explain further.
If every sin we commit is ONLY against God, according to Psalm 50, then the sins committed by others are ONLY against God. Since these sins are not against us, what business do we have not granting forgiveness to others? Shouldn’t that be God’s prerogative? Would we want other people refusing to forgive us for the sins that we committed against God? That doesn’t seem fair.
In today’s Gospel we hear, “As you wish that men would do to you, do so to then…..Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.” (Luke 6.31,36) This essential truth is at the heart of both forgiveness and love. If we wish for others to be merciful to us, we should be merciful to them first. If we wish for others to forgive us, we should forgive them first. If we wish to be loved, we should love first. God loved us first, forgave us first, was merciful first. God doesn’t wait for us to love Him; He loves us anyway and asks us to do the same for others.
Consider another perspective. What if we find it difficult to forgive and show mercy for others? Do we know their struggle, or do we presume to know their heart? How much do others know about our struggle? Could it be that other people know as little about our struggle than we know about their struggle? Most of us would admit, besides God and our closest confidants, that most people know very little, if any at all, about the struggle in our lives. If we can’t forgive based upon Psalm 50 or today’s Gospel, maybe at least we can forgive based on just knowing the entire story.
The alternative to forgiving, mercy and love is holding a grudge, being vengeful and hateful. Even sinners do the same. Don’t be a sinner.
+Fr. Athanasios C. Haros