Today, my brothers and sisters in Christ, I would like to return to a subject that has been sensitive to many of us. Nonetheless, I feel called upon to offer some simple advise on receiving Holy Communion. It is my priestly responsibility to do so.
I have been taught: “Early is on Time; On Time is Late.” With that in mind, I always try to arrive prior to the start of any event—the opposite of “Greek Time.” We chuckle about Greek time, but really, it is nothing less than an excuse. It may be socially acceptable in certain circumstances, but should never be used to justify our arrival so late to Church on Sundays. The excuse really is not one that should ever be used when we have been invited by the Lord Himself to his dinner, the Mystical Supper of Holy Communion.
I am not without understanding and empathy for those with children who struggle to get everyone out of the house on time. Nonetheless, our effort shoud definitely be to try our best to arrive on time when it comes to our participation in the sacrament of Holy Communion. We have been invited—invited by the Lord—to His house for a meal He prepared with his life. We are here to receive His body and blood, and we should not arrive just before dessert is served. The composite whole of the Divine Liturgy is a great banquet in which we are nourished and satisfied by our active participation. We are truly feasting on the Lord. As it says in the Psalms, and as we sing in one of our liturgy communion hymns: “Taste and see how good the Lord is.”
St. Paul, in 1st Corinthians says this about the body and the blood of Christ: “This do...for as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death till He comes.” However, in the same Epistle, he also dictates that we should not receive in an unworthily manner. He goes on to say, “But let every man examine himself, and so let him eat of the bread and drink of the cup.”
So, we see, there is an element of preparation for receiving Holy Communion. Fasting, prayer, love for one another are ways in which we prepare. It is not about making ourselves worthy—for none is worthy—but about examining ourselves and properly preparing. St. John Chrysostom also teaches that we can receive whenever Holy Communion is offered if by “maintaining our own earlier preparedness...” In other words, there are some fundamental things necessary for us in order to approach the chalice properly prepared.
Fundamentally, we attend the whole of the Divine Liturgy. We are not simply dropping in for a quick bite, like at a fast food restaurant, but are participating in the Mystical Supper. The different parts of the Liturgy all build us to the climax of holy Communion. If we are not present in the whole Divine Liturgy, have we really participated in the Lord’s Supper?
In terms of practical advice, I would say that if we are not in Church from the scripture readings, we really are not participating in enough of the Liturgy and not prepared to receive Holy Communion. Part of preparation is planning ahead—planning drives your time; so arrive in time to get settled, hear the scripture lessons and the sermon which follows, then participate in the Divine Liturgy and receive Holy Communion.